Being protective of his crush is not a bad thing, but very few have a nature of this kind.
I am very protective about my crush, when someone sees my crush with bad eyes or talks insolently with her, then I interrupt and stop that guy & make him realize in the language he understands that not to do this.
In today’s post I will share 21 valid reasons which will help you to know why a guy is protective of his crush.
1. He Cares About Her
2. He Can’t See Her Sad
If somebody shouts at her, then it’s obvious that she will feel sad.
He doesn’t want to see his crush feel sad because of anything, that’s why he will try to protect her from everything which will try to make her sad.
3. He Doesn’t Want To Lose His Crush
If a guy other than him, is trying to get his crush’s attention or to impress her then he will try to stop that guy.
Because for him, his crush is everything and he doesn’t want anyone to impress her and take them away from him forever.
4. He Has A Real Crush
He is not like other guys who got a crush on her because she is good-looking, but he has a real crush on her.
Some guys have a regular crush, and these don’t care about their crush, no matter she is suffering, facing any difficulty, or anything else they will never try to ask her.
But in the real crush, a guy is concerned about her because he truly likes her.
5. He Knows That The World is Bad
Not all girls know the real truth of this world i.e here, everyone is greedy & most of them see their profit first, to get something people can do anything here.
So, as he likes his crush a lot so he doesn’t want her to get in anyone’s hoax & to avoid this he will try to guide her whenever he sees that these kinds of people are wandering near her.
6. He is Loyal To His Relationship
If you are in any relationship with someone then you have to be loyal to that.
For example, you have a true friend and he needs your help, then you should help him rather than leaving him with his problem.
In the same, way a guy who has a crush on someone is loyal to his crush and this is the reason why he is protective of her.
7. He Wants To See Her Enjoy Her Life With Safety
As a real well-wisher, he wants to see his crush enjoying her life without worrying about anything & for this, he will do everything so that she can only get happiness, not a single sorrow.
8. He Wants To Protect His Crush’s Dignity
He knows very well that for a girl, dignity matters a lot so he has decided in his mind to protect his crush’s dignity from everything which will try to cause any harm to her dignity.
For example, his crush is sitting with her friends and a guy comes to her and started to talk bad things, now seeing that someone is trying to spoil her dignity, he will take away that guy from her.
9. He Knows What is Good & Bad For Her
If he Is saying her to keep away from some guys, then he is only asking this for her safety, he knows better than his crush that those guys are bad and by keeping the right distance from them she can avoid any bad thing happen to her.
10. He Doesn’t Want To Feel Her Alone
If someone is misbehaving with her, making fun of her, irritating her, etc. & no one is coming for her help then she will start to think that she is alone there.
But he doesn’t want her to feel alone that’s why he will protect her from everything when needed, like a shield, and when she will see that he is helping her every time, then she can also start to like her.
And one-sided crush can convert into two-sided.
11. He Believes That This is His Responsibility
He believes that if he has a crush on her then it’s his responsibility to protect her & he starts to keep an eye on her so that if she needs his help he can quickly help her.
You can understand this with an example that if you start arguing with his crush then either he will try to take her side or to stop you.
12. He Can’t See Her To Bear Pain
As he likes her from the bottom of his heart so he can’t see her bear the pain.
If she gets any injury or illness in the school then he will be the first to call the doctor for her, & will try to pay all the charges from his money.
13. He Knows That She is His Life
His thinking has become more mature and caring, he thinks that when he will be successful then he will give her a proposal to marry him.
In other words, he is assuming her as his life partner and we all know that every man in this world tries to protect her partner so he is also doing the same.
14. He Cares About What Others Will Say
Almost every boy tells about his crush to his friends so if he will not protect her than what his friends that ‘ He is very selfish as his crush needs his help and he is enjoying ‘.
So, to avoid this kind of right taunting from his friend, he will always be ready to help her.
Let’s see an example, if today is their computer class but she forgets to bring a laptop and the teacher has already clarified that today it’s compulsory to have a laptop in his period, now seeing that his crush is concerned, he will give his laptop to her and will hear scolding from his teacher for her.
Now after this period, rather than taunting, his friends will appreciate him and his crush will be impressed by him & will say ‘thank you for your help’.
15. He Wants To See Her Healthy
Protective doesn’t mean that he will only protect her from bad people but he will also take care of her health.
If he will see that he is frequently getting ill or facing any issue related to health then he will try to guide her best according to his knowledge.
16. He Cares About His Future
As protective of her, he will also try to take care of her future.
For this, he will guide her about the best field in which he can make her future bright & with this, he will protect her from those who will ever try to spoil her future.
17. He Knows Their Friendship is Above & Beyond a Crush
Usually, most of the guys don’t pay much attention to their crush, except when they have a real crush. He is aware that his crush likes him back and their friendship is above & beyond a crush.
And as these both like each other so it’s quite obvious that he will be very protective of his crush.
18. So That No One Can Disturb & Can’t Look At Her With Bad Eyes
He is always protective of her because to build fear in everybody’s mind that she is his crush so that no one can disturb her & can’t see her with bad eyes.
19. Off Course He is A Man
The whole world knows that men are protective in nature especially in the matter of women.
Maybe he is a teenager ( at or above 18 ) but he is also a man and this is the reason why he is protective of his crush.
20. He is Not Doing To Show Off
If anyone thinks that a guy is protective of his crush just to show off among others, then you are thinking wrong and before making this conclusion, try to ask once about this with that guy.
He never tried to pretense anything to anyone but it’s his real way of taking care of his crush.
21. He Loves Her
No one becomes protective of anyone without having something in his heart.
He is protective of his crush because he loves her a lot & can’t see her facing any kind of inconvenience in her life either personal or financial.
Frequently Asked Questions & Answers
#1. Why Guys Are Protective of Their Sister?
Sister is the life of a brother & her dignity, health, & respect is very important for her brother and this is the reason why a brother is protective of his sister.
#2. Why Guys Are Protective of Their Female Friend?
As the crush of a guy is a girl/female, so the answer to this query is the above-mentioned 21 reasons. 👍
That’s it for today’s post friends, I hope you liked the post and I was able to correctly answer your query.
Thanks 👍 Have a Nice Day Ahead….