So, you have a girlfriend and you are giving her some money whenever she needs it, but at the same time, you’re not sure whether you should help your girlfriend financially, then this post is for you.
If you are afraid of what others will say and you are not even sure whether you are doing good or bad by helping your girlfriend financially, so let me clear your doubts….
There is nothing wrong with helping your girlfriend financially and you should not pay attention to what others say..👍
In this post, you will be able to see the benefits of helping your girlfriend financially, when and when you should not help her financially.
So, let’s get dive into it….❤️
6 Benefits of Helping Your Girlfriend Financially
Every help has it’s own benefits & like this, there are many benefits of helping your girlfriend financially which are as follows:
1. She Will Consider You Very Close To Her Heart
As you are giving your girlfriend money in her need then she will start to consider you very close to her heart because no one is helping her in bad times but you’re.💕
2. She Will Realize You Really Love Her
She will realize that you really love her from the bottom of your heart because you are not the common guy who talks sweetly or sit near a girl just to impress her but you are the guy who is trying to help your girlfriend in every way possible including financially to make your her know that there is nothing fake in your love & all you have for her is your true love.❤️
3. Her Parents Would Understand That You’re A Genuine Guy
If your girlfriend’s parents work hard to run their house and you’re helping them financially with good intentions by either providing them money directly or providing a job to them then I think, her parents would understand that you’re a genuine guy who loves their daughter a lot.
Good News: If you have all the qualities that her parents are looking for in a boy to marry their daughter, then you will become their first choice to marry their daughter.
4. You Will Never Lose Her
Usually, when a boy starts liking a girl in high school or college then he enjoys a lot but things start to change suddenly after he & that girl complete their studies because situations will make them move away from each other like his parents will send him to a different university for higher studies and that girl’s parents will send her to a different university, and here that boy’s love story ends.
Similarly, situations will also try to take you away from your girlfriend many times but as you’re showing your endless love by helping her financially then there is less probability of losing her.
5. She Will Never Cheat You
I heard from a friend of mine that his girlfriend cheated on him and moved in with other boy, I am not saying that he should have helped his girlfriend financially because every boy has different reasons, why his girlfriend cheat on him?
If you’re helping your girlfriend financially and she loves you too then there is very little probability that she will think about another boy because you love her so much & you are doing everything you can to help her including helping her financially so, what else she needs?❤️
6. She Will Enjoy To Spend Time With You
Do you have an intense desire to spend the whole day shopping, discover nature, & eating food with your girlfriend?
If yes & she likes you too, then helping her financially can help you to fulfill this desire because every girl likes shopping & spending time in good places, and as you’re paying for everything so she doesn’t need to think about bills & will enjoy this world with you.
7. She Doesn’t Need To Live A Congested Life
If your girlfriend is living a very congested life like she is working a lot at home, she uses to wear the same clothes most of the time, & she doesn’t use many body care products because her family is not financially very good.
Then helping her financially will make your girlfriend happy because now she can buy good body care products, new clothes, & many more.
So, these are the benefits which you can get when you start to help your girlfriend financially but there is no guarantee that you will get these benefits because many other factors play a major role here.
When You Should Help Your Girlfriend Financially?
There are certain things which you need to check before helping your girlfriend financially which are as follows:
1. You Like Her & She Likes You Back
If you like your girlfriend and she also likes you back then, of course, you can help her financially when she needs it.
But make sure to think twice as it is about being with her for the rest of her life.
2. Her Family is Struggling Financially
If you know that your girlfriend’s financial condition is not good i.e either her parents earn very little or her parents do not have any job, then you should extend your hand ahead and help your girlfriend financially.
3. She Doesn’t Waste A Single Penny
If she doesn’t waste a single penny and wants financial help from you just to purchase useful things or pay the educational fee then there is no problem in helping her with money.
4. She Likes You Not Your Money
Maybe your girlfriend’s family is not financially sound but despite this, instead of showing interest in your money if she only loves you then it would be a good step to help her financially if she needs your financial help, & believe me, this will help you to strengthen your friendship with her. ❤️
5. Your Family’s Monthly Income is Good
Providing financial support to your girlfriend seems best only when your family’s monthly income is very good or you’re a rich man because if you’re already struggling financially, then what will be the benefit of helping your girlfriend with money?
So, always keep in mind that your family should have a good amount of money before helping your girlfriend financially.
After reading these above mentioned 5 points you will be able to know when should you help her with money.
When You Shouldn’t Help Your Girlfriend Financially?
Here are some points that will help you to decide when you shouldn’t help your girlfriend financially:
1. She is Using You For Money
If your girlfriend comes in front of you only when she needs some amount of money from you then there is no doubt that she is using you for her need of money because if a girl really loves you then she will be with you many times not only in times when she needs any financial help from you.
If you are sure that she is just taking advantage of you then it’s better to avoid helping her with money.✋
2. She is Wasting Your Money
A girlfriend should only ask money related help from his boyfriend when she really needs it, if she is taking financial help from her boyfriend to enjoy all the time then it’s not good.
And if your girlfriend is also wasting your money then you should think twice before helping her with money.
3. She is Cheating You
If you often see your girlfriend enjoying with other guys after taking money from you then it is a clear-cut sign that she is cheating with you and your innocent heart.💔
If you have found that she is cheating with you then undoubtedly you shouldn’t provide any financial help!
4. She Has No Respect For Your Help
If you required urgent help from your friend and he helped you immediately, then it becomes your duty to at least say him ‘thank you’ and if you’re not doing this then it proves that you are not a good guy.
Similarly, if your girlfriend has no respect for your financial help like she avoids you, leaves you on read, etc. Then as per me, you should think again about helping her financially.
” If you cares about what others will say, then it will become very hard for you to help & impress your love “
Brother, as per me, you should help her with money when she really needs it but if you know that her parents earn a decent amount of money but still she is asking for financial help then try to help her because maybe she is testing you that how much you love her.
❤️Always Remember Your Love is More Precious Then Money❤️
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